I Left my Heart in Seoul

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From the Bride’s Father’s Notebook – Introduction

Over the next two months, mixed in with poems and events, essays, letters, observations, I’m going to publish in The Life Literary a journal I kept for 15 days a little over a year ago.  At the time, I wanted to set on paper an account of our daughter’s wedding, not simply or even mostly a description of the events, but rather a sounding of the depth of our feelings, our reactions to it all.  Life amuses and amazes me anyway: the coupling of rare and common, the sonorous discordant, the diamond in the straw.  A wedding amplifies and magnifies these fascinating, joyful absurdities with a smack between the eyes and when it’s your child, at your heart, too. Continue reading

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Burns Night Supper

Here’s an invitation Anita and I received to attend a formal, high-fallutin’ Burns Supper.  I’m excited to be going, especially now that I’ve been the chairman (what they call the Master of Ceremonies of a Burns supper, as opposed to the host who manages the food, supplies the venue, makes sure the scotch and haggis, the tatties and neeps are in good supply) of my own Supper.  We first attended large, formal Burns Suppers overseas before I started wearing kilts or memorizing poems.  Knowing more about Scotland’s Bard and his poems will hopefully make this event even more fun and memorable.

Last weekend we bought a Prince Charlie jacket and matching waistcoat and tux shirt from my local kilt store that is, alas, going out of business and selling off stock at a discount.  Now I’ll be able to attend the event wearing Highland Evening dress.  I remember admiring (read: being jealous of) the men wearing full, formal kilt attire at those very fancy Burns Suppers overseas, attended by wealthy expatriates and far-flung Scots hired by multinational corporations and NGOs.  My wife, in an entirely different way, also admired them.  Yes, I’ll say it: kilts are sexy.  And I’ll also confess that I’m glad to be of the kilt-wearing ranks.

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The Selkirk Grace

By Robert Burns

Some hae meat and canna eat,
And some wad eat that want it;
But we hae meat, and we can eat,
Sae let the Lord be thankit.

(This is the prayer traditionally prayed at Burns Suppers.)

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It’s Beginning to Look A Lot Like Burns

It’s January!  Let’s see what’s on my to-do list:

  1. Read a Robert Burns biography – check;
  2. Order the haggis – check
  3. Put together the Immortal Memory speech – check
  4. Send out the invitations to Burns supper – check
  5. Practice the poems and songs I’ll recite – check

These and a dozen other things are how I get ready for our Burns Supper, an event that admirers of Robert Burns and his poems and songs have done for more than 200 years since 7 or 8 of his close friends shared the first supper a few years after his death in 1796.   The event, which happens on or near January 25, the anniversary of his birth in 1759) is centered around a meal and contains, at minimum, a Burns poem, a haggis, and a toast to the great Scottish poet.  Our four-hour event includes good food, good poetry, good conversation, and a wee dram or two of good scotch.

Below is the invitation I’m sending out tonight.  Continue reading

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Redemption: Start in the Corner

My daughter, a married college sophomore, wrote an email a while back.  She felt overwhelmed with all the work she had to do, and discouraged that she wasn’t doing it as well as she could or should.  She was even worrying about how she’d have the energy and time to earn a master’s degree, a task still several years off.  The storm of things she had to do challenged her self-image as an intelligent, capable person.  “So what’s wrong with me that I can’t handle too many things at once,” she asked.  The overwhelming ocean of tasks made her lament, “There’s just too much for me to do well. I’m afraid I’ll have to settle with being a little less.”

Her last line: “How did you and mom do it? You’re in your 50’s and you have 3 grown children. What’s the secret?”

Here’s what I wrote to her: Continue reading

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Too Lovely to Light

Winter Chiminea

Even with little bits like a photo caption or brief email I like to make verbiage sing.  Note the homophones and alliteration: almost a wee poem.

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Holiday Work, Part 2: New Year’s Eve

So ironic!  I was going to write this on New Year’s Eve, but I was busy from 9 to 9, driving the hour to West Lafayette to spend the day helping our daughter and her husband set up their home.   Sophomores at Purdue, they just moved into a new apartment.  My wife and I hemmed and ironed curtains (she) and mounted rods (me) to hang them, helped arrange furniture, put a bed together, and ran to the hardware store.   We enjoy arranging and decorating living space and the kids value our knack for making a place beautiful.  The point:  we spent Friday of our holidays working.  By the time we got home, it was time to ring in the new year.

No problem, I thought.  I’ll  write on New Year’s Day.  Except that Continue reading

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Public Proofreading

Amazing to read what I thought were carefully drafted essays “published” online, to see how much editing they still need.  Maybe good re-writing requires reading text in another context, like from screen to hard copy or blog composing box to online to see it anew.

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Christmas Work

Most people take a few weeks to get ready for Christmas.  We had one day, a hazard of living in two places.  At 51 though not all that old yet (I keep telling myself), I still have energy (most of the time), also excitement (pretty much) about life and its tasks.  Ironic that vacations and holidays become tasks, a series of jobs to get done in order to be able to take a break from work.  I’m thinking too many of my adult Christmases required too much work.  Part of my problem comes from being such a transient, taking work in such far-flung locales as Bombay or Louisiana.  I suspect travel only magnifies the already considerable work of a holiday like Christmas, like shopping, cooking, cleaning, being hospitable.

One Christmas when we lived in Louisiana, Continue reading

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